Monday, April 30, 2007

The Four Agreement

"Our Life is determine by movies that we watched, books that we read and peoples that we meet." I would like to recommend a very good book from DON MIGUEL RUIZ. [The Four Agreement] ; A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom.

Maybe some of you have read it before, please read it again and again. 3 Years ago, one of my mentor pass me this book, I fininshed it but not much impact.. Recently, I read it again... wah! I got a lot of new awareness and experience. Happy reading!

THE FOUR AGREEMENT

1) Be Impeccable with your Word
Speak with Integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2) Don't Take anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

3) Don't Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4) Always Do you Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

I am going to order hundred copies for English and Chinese Version, call me if you would like to have one. Have a Best day!

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